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You’re probably reading this article because you have a first date lined up and want to ensure it goes smoothly. You’ve gone through the trouble of charming this lady for weeks (maybe months) on end. Your chase may have cost you something socially, financially or emotionally. Some girls can play hard to get but congratulations; you got her to agree to a date. Now bagging that date may have been quite a challenging experience considering you may have had to overcome your own feelings of inadequacy or competition from other guys. Still, all that trouble will count for naught if you mess up the actual date. Now you have to realize that the female species are very different to us guys. While a man is primarily motivated emotionally and sexually by what he can see, women have different motivations. One of their primary motivations is the continual affirmation of their self worth either through words or kind deeds. Knowing this, you have to be careful when you go out with this beautiful girl you like. Failure to appreciate her primary motivations will lead to an uneventful or worse still boring and disappointing date. Many guys fail to realize that your approach when chasing a girl has to be different when you have her on the opposite side of the table at a restaurant. There are some questions you should avoid asking a lady on a first date. Remember a woman needs affirmation that she is beautiful and worthy of your admiration and attention. Anything short of this will make her withdraw from you. Below are 15 questions and things you should never ask or say to a girl on a first date. 1.   You look a bit fat in that dress. Have you ever considered going on a diet? 2.   Have you ever had a threesome? 3.   Would you be offended if I told you I chose you because I couldn’t get your friend? 4.   Can you pay the bill as I don’t have any money on me? 5.   Are you sexually active? 6.    You ordered a bottle of wine. Do you have a drinking problem? 7.    Is your friend who I saw at the party single? 8.    You look more beautiful on your online profile picture than in real life. 9.    I had the best times of my life with my ex at this restaurant we’re in. 10.  Are you a virgin? 11.  Do you love me? 12.  Have you ever had an abortion? 13.  How much do you earn annually? 14.  How long do you think we’ll last for? 15.  I need to leave early to take my mum to the supermarket Please erase the thought of asking any of the above questions or anything closely related to them on your first date. Ideally you’d like to take her out on a second date. Asking dumb, awkward and personal questions is not going to let you achieve this goal. Keep it simple, general and humorous and you’ll get her saying YES to date number 2. first date ideas questions to ask on date